I was a single Mom to one child for over ten years. He was well behaved, respectful and I thought it was due to my exceptional parenting. *insert hysterical laughing here* Now that I am married and the mom to not one, but four children...three who are under 9, I realize I was wrong. Not that I don't think I'm a good parent, but I've learned that is only one piece of the puzzle. Having multiple children is so different than raising one. They feed off of one another. They blame one another. They … [Read more...] about A parenting overhaul… the traffic light method.