Are You a Shopaholic?

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confessions_of_a_shopaholic_12I watched one of my favourite movies last night: Confessions of a Shopaholic. It’s a cute movie with the right balance of comedy and romance…but it also addresses a very real problem for a lot of people. The main character is a shopaholic (I bet you didn’t get that from the title!) and she has dug herself into a pretty deep hole with unpaid debt, collections calls and the inability to pay for her basic needs. She says that making a new purchase makes everything feel wonderful, and once that wonderful goes away, she needs to do it again.

While I can’t say I completely understand the euphoria that a shopaholic feels when they make a purchase, I definitely understand impulse buying. I think we are all guilty of it at one time or another. Whether it is spotting the perfect handbag that you just have to buy, or deciding to order dinner rather than make it, you are making an unplanned purchase. We hire professionals and mull over the details when we are considering buying mutual funds, but we make purchases (and sometimes big purchases) with just a few minutes of consideration.

So how can we get the things we want without risking our retirement funds? By planning for unexpected purchases. Just like we set aside at least 10% of our income for retirement, it’s also good to set up a percentage of your income for emergencies, and also for surprise purchases. I budget for the impulse purchases that I know will happen, like ordering pizza or going out for ice cream, but a separate savings for the larger purchases is always a good idea.

Waiting 24-72 hours before making these purchases is another great way to save yourself some money and be sure that you can afford the item. Sometimes that thing that you absolutely have to have is not as exciting a day later. Or perhaps there are some bills or other purchases that you hadn’t remembered in the heat of the moment.

Comments

36 responses to “Are You a Shopaholic?”

  1. Rachel Avatar
    Rachel

    It is a cute movie. I used to be a shopaholic. Then I got married and had a strict budget.

  2. Robin Gagnon {Mom Foodie} Avatar
    Robin Gagnon {Mom Foodie}

    I was in my 20’s, perhaps even my 30’s but not any more… I sort of got over it.

  3. Kathleen Avatar
    Kathleen

    I definitely am not a shop a holic thank goodness, but I do love that movie.

  4. Colleen Avatar
    Colleen

    I think I use to be, now I shop in spurts.

  5. Sheilacakes Avatar
    Sheilacakes

    I have never seen the movie. I am not a shopaholic thank goodness.

  6. debra pearlstein Avatar
    debra pearlstein

    It’s a cute movie, but I’m not a shopaholic. It would be fun to have that possibility someday ;).

  7. Lisa Avatar

    I still like to shop. You just have to refrain from the buying 🙂

  8. Dee @ Cocktails with Mom Avatar
    Dee @ Cocktails with Mom

    I wouldn’t call myself a shopaholic but I love to shop.

  9. Theresa Avatar

    I’m not a shopaholic, but great tip about waiting before buying!

  10. Kelly @ A Girl Worth Saving Avatar
    Kelly @ A Girl Worth Saving

    I love shopping but not on the same scale as the gal in this movie.

  11. Lolo Avatar
    Lolo

    Nope, do not have the money for it!

  12. Stefani Avatar
    Stefani

    I love to shop but thankfully I am not a shopaholic.

  13. Leilani Avatar
    Leilani

    That was such a cute movie. I love Isla Fischer! I used to be a shopaholic when I was in my early 20s. Now that I’m a mom, there’s no way I could afford it.

  14. Emily @FamilyNLifeLV Avatar

    My hubs and I have a certain $ amount that we have to wait and talk to the other before spending.

  15. Ty @ Mama of 3 Munchkins Avatar

    I love shopping but thank goodness I’m not a shopaholic.

  16. TerriAnn @ Cookies & Clogs Avatar
    TerriAnn @ Cookies & Clogs

    I’m not a shopaholic – I actually dislike shopping. But, as a mom, there are times I need to do it. While I don’t impulse buy too much, I am a HUGE returner/exchanger. It’s definitely better to plan and be more efficient in what I get. Thanks!

  17. Shell Feis Avatar
    Shell Feis

    I barely ever buy anything, but I’ve been wanting to see this movie since it came out!

  18. Soozle Avatar
    Soozle

    While I would not say I am a shopaholic, I am very much an impulse buyer… Especially when it comes to grocery shopping! IE “It’s a good price! I should buy it”, when I don’t NEED it..

    What helped me watch my budget was to keep all of my receipts and go through them at the end of the month. It’s pretty eye opening to SEE where your money is going!

  19. Melinda@LookWhatMomFound...andDadtoo Avatar
    Melinda@LookWhatMomFound…andDadtoo

    I do love to shop but I’m good about sticking to a budget.

  20. Jennifer @TheRebelChick Avatar
    Jennifer @TheRebelChick

    I used to be a shopaholic but I’m in recovery. LOL

  21. Anne Taylor Avatar
    Anne Taylor

    I was a shopaholic when I was younger, but I’m not anymore, purely because I can’t afford to be……if I had the funds, I’m sure I would be actively shopaholic”ing” lol

  22. Liz @ A Nut in a Nutshell Avatar
    Liz @ A Nut in a Nutshell

    I always make myself wait if I have any hesitation or indecision at all. Most of the time, I realize I didn’t really want it. I read that entire book series and loved it!

  23. Tammy Avatar
    Tammy

    I’m not a shopaholic at all. It helps living in a small home, you know there is only so much room to put stuff!

  24. Anne - Mommy Has to Work Avatar

    I used to be as well, but not any more.

  25. Lisa H Avatar
    Lisa H

    Im a bit of a Shopoholic but in the cheap way. I have way too much makeup, jewelry etc but as I buy things dirt cheap on Ebay or clearance sales I justify it – like the $9 purse that looks like the one that cost hundreds lol!

  26. LyndaS Avatar
    LyndaS

    I have read all of Sophie Kinsella’s Shopaholic books. LOVE!

  27. Penelope Avatar

    Sometimes, for certain things 🙂

  28. Maryann Avatar

    those were fun books, but No i”m not one.

  29. Marcie W. Avatar
    Marcie W.

    I love to shop but I am a sucker for clearance racks and good sales.

  30. Donna Avatar
    Donna

    I used to be, then for the last 6 years, not so much. But since I’ve recently lost weight, I’m finding myself becoming one again. I really did need new clothes, but I admit, I’m going just a tad crazy. I’ll get a handle on it, though. 🙂

  31. Pam Avatar
    Pam

    I used to be a shopaholic for sure. But, now, it gives me heart palpitations when I make a purchase.

    –sad but true–

  32. Mellisa Avatar
    Mellisa

    It gives me anxiety to spend alot of money so I am definitely not a shopaholic.

  33. Jenn Avatar
    Jenn

    Fun books (and movie). I’m not a shopaholic. Too cheap!

  34. HilLesha @To the Motherhood Avatar
    HilLesha @To the Motherhood

    I read the book and watched the movie! However, the character’s spending made me cringe a little. I’m all for good bargains, but even those can lead you into trouble if you’re not careful with your wallet. 😉

  35. Victoria Ess Avatar
    Victoria Ess

    Totally a shopaholic, and I definitely do the “wait 24-72 hours” thing to save my credit rating.

  36. Kelly @ Texas Type A Mom Avatar
    Kelly @ Texas Type A Mom

    I love the Shopaholic books but have yet to see the movie.

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