The Man Cave vs the Mom Cave

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My husband and I share the parenting responsibilities fairly equally. We both get up with the kids in the mornings, we get them breakfast, find their clothes, make their lunches and rush them out the door for school. We both have our careers, and we share household and yard chores. I take on the financial responsibilities, scheduling appointments and pet care. My husband drives the kids to their activities, and picks up the mail every day. When dinner is done and the kids retreat to their activities, my husband retreats to his man cave, and I …. well, I stay in the living room and manage whatever the kids want or need until bedtime.

We share so much of the responsibility equally, yet our home has a space specifically for him and none for me. To be fair, I am not interested in spending time in the basement where his man cave is, but I wouldn’t object to a nice sitting area in our bedroom. It is certainly big enough, if we were to rearrange things a little and move the exercise equipment somewhere else (like the basement!). When we purchase our next home, a designated mom cave will definitely be on the list.

Twistos recognized this disparity between parents and decided to honour one special mom for Mother’s Day. Monique is a busy mom of three extremely active kids and the founder of a charity dedicated to providing school supplies to underprivileged kids. Twistos surprised Monique with a Mom Cave makeover in her home. Take a look.

So what is the mom cave? It is a place for mom to find a few moments of peace. It is her place to put her feet up, read a book and enjoy a snack without having to share. Twistos Baked Snack Crackers are a good choice for the mom cave, since they provide all of the flavor without the guilt of a heavier snack. The mom cave is the place where she can be “Monique” instead of “mom”.

To celebrate Mother’s Day, one of my lucky readers will win a Twistos Mom Cave giveaway that includes $300 in Twistos Snack Crackers and a $100 gift card for Urban Barn.

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I have been compensated for this post. All opinions and statements are my own.

Comments

151 responses to “The Man Cave vs the Mom Cave”

  1. sandy guerra Avatar
    sandy guerra

    go to time out on my balconey

  2. Marlene J Avatar
    Marlene J

    Take a nice walk or a nice hot bath 🙂

  3. Melinda Jana Avatar
    Melinda Jana

    the couch in the living room, where I can relax with a good book

  4. jan Avatar
    jan

    i retreat to the den with a book

  5. ginette4 Avatar
    ginette4

    I love a hot bath with a glass a wine..that’s my retreat place

  6. Angela September Avatar
    Angela September

    For me time I usually go in the backyard when the weather is nice and I can read in silence!
    and also $100 to spend at Urban Barn? EEEEEE that is exciting!!

  7. Andrea Amy Avatar
    Andrea Amy

    I don’t really get “me” time… I try to have baths on my own but either my husband, the kids, or all of them interrupt me. I try to do “netflix” time after my youngest 3 go to bed, but my 18 year old generally thinks this is the time for us to catch up and chat, or my husband bugs me lol

  8. nicky Avatar
    nicky

    to a yoga class or swimming at the local pool

  9. Dianne G. Avatar
    Dianne G.

    When I need some me time I go to my craft/sewing room and work on something.

  10. Shane Avatar
    Shane

    the gym hands down, that’s my me-time

  11. Doris Calvert Avatar
    Doris Calvert

    I go shopping or go somewhere alone and listen to music and watch nature

  12. em Avatar
    em

    I usually go to a concert. If there is no concert then I just put on my headphones and zone out

  13. Jamie hall Avatar
    Jamie hall

    My massage therapist appointment then grocery shopping afterwords it’s kind of sad lol

  14. Cheryl Avatar
    Cheryl

    When I want me time I have a hot bath

  15. Amy Heffernan Avatar
    Amy Heffernan

    I go to the bathroom! :S

  16. Jenn Avatar
    Jenn

    I like to sit out on the porch.

  17. Lynda Cook Avatar
    Lynda Cook

    I’m lucky and I get the whole livingroom, my girls are grown and it’s just me and hubby, he has his man cave and I get the livingroom!!

  18. Stephanie LaPlante Avatar
    Stephanie LaPlante

    I go to my bedroom, backyard or mall.

  19. Jeannie Lam Avatar
    Jeannie Lam

    I go for a nice warm bubble bath or to my reading chair with my cozy blanket and book.

  20. Jennifer L. Avatar
    Jennifer L.

    I read in my room or have a hot bath.

  21. Wendy hutton Avatar
    Wendy hutton

    I like to take a stroll through the park trails its so quiet

  22. Erinn Lishman Avatar
    Erinn Lishman

    A place for me time is few and far between, and usually the rare moment when my house is empty and I get to relax on the couch in front of the fire!

  23. christine w Avatar
    christine w

    I read in my room with a good book.

  24. Florence C Avatar
    Florence C

    I love a long walk to the coffee shop and back for me time.

  25. Brenda Penton Avatar
    Brenda Penton

    I lay in bed and read.

  26. Debbie F Avatar
    Debbie F

    I go to my bedroom and read for some me time.

  27. Katharine W Avatar
    Katharine W

    I relax with a warm cup of tea and read a good book.

  28. Tara Avatar
    Tara

    Straight to my office and appear to be working to hold off the kids.

  29. Judy Cowan Avatar
    Judy Cowan

    I go crawl into my bed with a book or my tablet when I want some me time.

  30. kristen visser Avatar
    kristen visser

    I actually do not have a place where i just can go for some me time. My me time is pretty much when my girls go to bed and I can sit in the kitchen as I am now, enjoying a glass of wine on my computer

  31. charityk Avatar
    charityk

    i like to get me time when i garden

  32. Kim K Avatar
    Kim K

    When I need me time I either go into the garden or have a relaxing bubble bath.

  33. Shelley N Avatar
    Shelley N

    I go have a bath for my me time.

  34. tammy ta Avatar
    tammy ta

    I retreat to my bathroom (where I lock the door)

  35.  Avatar
    Anonymous

    I’ve been known to take over the bathroom for an hr, sitting in the tub reading a book LOL

    1. sabina Edwards Avatar
      sabina Edwards

      I seem to have not put down my name LOL

  36. sabina Edwards Avatar
    sabina Edwards

    OK ONE MORE TIME …I have been known to take over the bathroom for an hour at a time reading a good book.

  37. sarah alexis Avatar
    sarah alexis

    What me time???? My escape happens on the couch when the kids are finally in bed….

  38. Jonnie Avatar
    Jonnie

    I just stay in our living room where my comfy chair is and encourage everyone else to go down to the family room.

  39. Aarone Mawdsley Avatar
    Aarone Mawdsley

    I go to the spa

  40. Rob U Avatar
    Rob U

    My wife has an office…but after seeing this, it could use a some personal touches…to make it hers!

  41. Carol Denny Avatar
    Carol Denny

    I have a cup of coffee and read.

  42. 409cope Avatar
    409cope

    I go into my office for some me time.

  43. Krista M Avatar
    Krista M

    My me time is after the kids go to bed, I get to be alone in the quiet of my living room with a blanket, some Netflix, & then some reading before I go to sleep.

  44. Ira Avatar
    Ira

    Right now it’s pretty much nowhere… grocery shopping once a week gives me some time on my own.

  45. Julie Avatar
    Julie

    We have a family of 6 so space is at a premium so I don’t have a Mom cave but I do use my back deck for some me time when the kids are outside playing and the Beach is a great way to get some Me time while still being around the fam! They have a great time in the sand and I can get a bit of peace too! Win win!

  46. angela marriott Avatar
    angela marriott

    My me time is a night when the kids go to bed. In the bath or on the couch.

  47. Sunshine G Avatar
    Sunshine G

    I escape to Starbucks with a new magazine and hunker down with a latte.

  48. wobbles13 Avatar

    cup of tea and doing some crafts

  49. heather sibley Avatar
    heather sibley

    I have a long soak in the tub when I need some me time.

  50. joni w Avatar
    joni w

    I get some ‘me’ time in my bedroom.

  51. Pamela Humphrey Avatar
    Pamela Humphrey

    I usually disappear into the tub for a very long time.

  52. Glogirl Avatar
    Glogirl

    I go to a quiet place in the house like my bedroom for some “me time”.

  53. Nancy T Avatar
    Nancy T

    Once everyone is asleep (hubby too) I sit in the family room with no tv, catching up on my email or just reading.

  54. Juliee Fitze Avatar
    Juliee Fitze

    I head to my bedroom with the laptop to get some me time.

  55. Belinda McNabb Avatar
    Belinda McNabb

    for some me time I got into my bedroom and close the door for a bit.

  56. Jenness M Avatar
    Jenness M

    I retreat to my bathroom with a bubble bath and glass of wine!

  57. Bailey Dexter Avatar
    Bailey Dexter

    For me time, I love to make a pot of tea, grab a book & have a hot soak in the tub!

  58. Debbie White Beattie Avatar
    Debbie White Beattie

    In the summer I sit on my deck and in the winter you can find me hiding in the bedroom.

  59. Jolie Avatar
    Jolie

    If I can’t go to a spa, I take a long bath in my hot tub.

  60. Tina L. Avatar
    Tina L.

    on the couch

  61. Michelle Policelli Avatar
    Michelle Policelli

    I go to my bedroom!

  62. Nate Fuller Avatar
    Nate Fuller

    The only me time we have is when the kids go to sleep and we are looking at our phones on either end of the couch!

  63. Jenny Avatar
    Jenny

    i go have a warm bath

  64. andie Avatar
    andie

    I like to read or do wordsearches on my back deck.

  65. Shirley OFlynn Avatar
    Shirley OFlynn

    I go bicycling in the park for some alone time.

  66. SweetPanda Avatar
    SweetPanda

    Take a hot bath/hot shower is my me time.

  67. Tracy D Avatar
    Tracy D

    A hike through the trails.

  68. Tammy Dalley Avatar
    Tammy Dalley

    I sit read and just relax!

  69. Jennifer Lo Avatar
    Jennifer Lo

    in my bedroom

  70. Stephanie Avatar
    Stephanie

    I usually go to my room and read a book for some “me time”

  71. tracy k Avatar
    tracy k

    local coffee shop

  72. christina rogers Avatar
    christina rogers

    A BUBBLE BATH !

  73. Marty C Avatar
    Marty C

    I go to work 🙂

  74. Brittney House Avatar
    Brittney House

    I like to go to the bookstore and read for me time.

  75. angela cunningham Avatar
    angela cunningham

    take a nice hot bath

  76. harold Avatar
    harold

    A nice bike ride.

  77. Sherry moffitt Avatar
    Sherry moffitt

    I go read a good book, a nice cup of tea in the sun room.

  78. Susanne McCarthy Avatar
    Susanne McCarthy

    I take a nice long hot bubble bath every night!

  79. Heidi c. Avatar
    Heidi c.

    It doesn’t happen often but, occasionally, Mommy gets some me-time to read at night.

  80. Angela Mitchell Avatar
    Angela Mitchell

    I go for a walk on the beach trail or I have a bath.

  81. nicolthepickle Avatar
    nicolthepickle

    Usually to the grocery store.

  82. leanne Avatar
    leanne

    I go to my room and read a book

  83. Richard Hicks Avatar
    Richard Hicks

    I go to my bedroom for me time and shut the door

  84. Robyn Bellefleur Avatar
    Robyn Bellefleur

    I usually go out to my back deck and hope that no one saw me go out there.

  85. margo b Avatar
    margo b

    I unwind by having a nice hot bath, with a book and a glass of wine, that usually does the trick.

  86. Amy C Avatar
    Amy C

    I have a bubble bath.

  87. Silvia D Avatar
    Silvia D

    either to the bedroom or now that weather is nice out on the back patio.

  88. Tara Betterley Avatar
    Tara Betterley

    Right now, I go to my bathroom to have a nice hot bath. It is the only place I can get some peace to relax and unwind.

  89. julia g Avatar
    julia g

    I go out for coffee and read.

  90. heather s Avatar
    heather s

    I go out in the garden

  91. Laurie Bolduc-Cadieux Avatar
    Laurie Bolduc-Cadieux

    I like to go out for a walk, or to the store and do some retail therapy… or just chill in my office and watch a movie.

  92. Diane52 Avatar
    Diane52

    I spend me time in the back yard.

  93. Carole Dube Avatar
    Carole Dube

    I go for a nice massage!

  94. Julie bolduc Avatar
    Julie bolduc

    I got to my room and read a book

  95. Anna Johnson Avatar
    Anna Johnson

    I don’t have a place to go as my husband, boys and dogs find me everywhere! I can try a bath or shower, or read in my room, but never alone for long. Sigh!

  96. sabina Edwards Avatar
    sabina Edwards

    wow I didnt even know my closest city has an Urban Barn!! Had to google and then spent way too much time looking online lol

  97. Sarah Stickney Avatar
    Sarah Stickney

    I send my kid to Grandma’s house for the day.

  98. Leslie Crosbie Avatar
    Leslie Crosbie

    I am a single mom of 4 and sad but true, sometimes my only ‘me’ time is when I lock myself in the bathroom!!

  99. Diana Powell Avatar
    Diana Powell

    Love taking the dogs for a walk .Even though I’m with the dogs I consider it me time. Always feel great after our walks.

  100. caryn s Avatar
    caryn s

    I honestly get a bit of me time at the end of the day if i am lucky!

  101. Danielle Day Avatar
    Danielle Day

    I go for walks at the park.

  102. Erika Letson Avatar
    Erika Letson

    I usually go into the bathtub for my ‘me’ time. I keep my fingers crossed not to be bothered when I’m in there!

  103. ivy pluchinsky Avatar
    ivy pluchinsky

    outside on my lounger with a good book and a nice drink

  104. Barb Wilkins Avatar
    Barb Wilkins

    I like tub me time!

  105. Nicole Avatar
    Nicole

    I go for a walk with my dog – exercise & alone time!

  106. Cheryl Avatar
    Cheryl

    My me time is in my bedroom 🙂

  107. Carol M Avatar
    Carol M

    Usually the spare bedroom.

  108. Deb C Avatar
    Deb C

    I have me time in a tiny room I use for an office. It needs to be turned into a mini me room !

  109. Karla Sceviour Avatar
    Karla Sceviour

    I go for a nice relaxing hot bubble bath!

  110. Jodi Mitrovic Avatar
    Jodi Mitrovic

    I am a mom to an 18 month old, 2 week old and a 35 year old…I’m afraid to admit it but I really don’t have anywhere to retreat for a little “me time”! I’m starting to wonder why I even bother shutting the door behind me to the bathroom! I say you take a little me time and set up your bedroom. Maybe your husband won’t notice a huge treadmill in front of his tv 🙂 Incredible prize pack that any mom would be lucky to win! Good luck all you hard working Mama’s!

  111. BlessedTA Avatar
    BlessedTA

    My bedroom

  112. leana Avatar
    leana

    I have a bath for some “me” time!

  113. Monique L.S. Avatar
    Monique L.S.

    In the living room, and play on the computer. Usually after the kids go to bed.

  114. linda d. Avatar
    linda d.

    My me time is when I walk the dog.

  115. Erin McGrath Avatar
    Erin McGrath

    I walk every morning with my dogs.

  116. Elizabeth Vlug Avatar
    Elizabeth Vlug

    My me time takes place at our community center where I take a pilates class. Relaxing to me.

  117. Suzi Avatar
    Suzi

    Into my own headspace – I put on my headphones and tune out the world. 🙂

  118. Denise S Avatar
    Denise S

    I hang out in my bedroom and read.

  119. clynsg Avatar
    clynsg

    I shut my bedroom door and read, take a long shower, etc.

  120. Amie Avatar
    Amie

    My bedroom , but in my house there is not many places to hide for a few minutes to relax

  121. Jennifer P. Avatar
    Jennifer P.

    I don’t have a lot of space to get away to, so I like to retreat to a nice hot bubble bath with a book.

  122. Lisa Smith Avatar
    Lisa Smith

    I take time gardening and just enjoying myself on the deck.

  123. Karen B Avatar
    Karen B

    I’d love to have a small cabin in the back field to escape to, I’d surround it with trees and have a porch to relax and read or just watch the birds.

  124. Valerie Mallette Avatar
    Valerie Mallette

    I go to my room where I can read alone for some me time.

  125. M james Avatar
    M james

    The only place in my house to get me time when everyone is home is my bedroom.

  126. Maria Avatar
    Maria

    Usually take nice long hot bath

  127. Kim Stenner Avatar
    Kim Stenner

    To my couch, under a blanket and binge watch something on Netflix

  128. Christine Holliday Avatar
    Christine Holliday

    To my bedroom. sometimes the craft room.

  129. masood anjum Avatar
    masood anjum

    LOVE HOT BATH

  130. Lisa V. Avatar
    Lisa V.

    I go to the mountains and backpack.

  131. Brandy Smith Avatar
    Brandy Smith

    I sit outside and read a book … takes me away for a bit!

  132. Betty S Avatar
    Betty S

    to get some me time I crawl into my favourite chair with a good book and a cup of tea

  133. Treen Goodwin Avatar
    Treen Goodwin

    I to to my Bedroom and lock the door and watch movies with my hidden snacks and drink wine ! thanks for the chance 🙂

  134. Dave Smith Avatar
    Dave Smith

    I workout in the basement or go for a run.

  135. Christina Moore Avatar
    Christina Moore

    I go on my patio with a good book and a cold drink

  136. Barbara Fox Avatar
    Barbara Fox

    I go to my bedroom…my oasis…my private spot.

  137. CL Avatar
    CL

    my walks to work or the mall are my me-time!

  138. CL Chin Avatar
    CL Chin

    my walks to work or at the mall are where i get my me-time moments!

  139. EMMA LHORTON Avatar
    EMMA LHORTON

    I TAKE A CUP OF COFFEE AND GO SAT IN FRONT OF THE WINDOW IN THE MORNINGS

  140. Jaime Cummings Avatar
    Jaime Cummings

    I enjoy ‘me’ time by reading on my kindle at the beach. It allows me to escape the stresses of my daily life and just enjoy the smell of the ocean.

  141. Sandra S Avatar
    Sandra S

    I go and drink coffee on the deck.. watch the birds and listen to the bees.. Love it!

  142. BILL HOFF Avatar
    BILL HOFF

    In my home office listen to oldies and enter sweepstales!

  143. Tara Gauthier Avatar
    Tara Gauthier

    I enjoy having a warm bath and reading a good book!

  144. Kristi C Avatar
    Kristi C

    I sit out on the front porch with a good book.

  145. Betty C Avatar
    Betty C

    I don’t share my home with anyone else so I can go anywhere I want to relax.

  146. Stephanie Liske Avatar
    Stephanie Liske

    I go to my room for me time.

  147. Jen L Avatar
    Jen L

    My most relaxing ‘me time’ is spent in the tub; soaking and listing to music.

  148. Tammy Greer Avatar
    Tammy Greer

    I love to go shopping all by myself.

  149. Christie K Avatar
    Christie K

    I like to go sit in the yard and do some gardening.

  150. Carl White Avatar

    Where do you go for some ‘me time’?

    The strip club.

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