He Called Me a Girl! #PGMom #LikeAGirl

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I’ve heard it my whole life, the references about girls that imply girls are somehow less than boys. The derogatory remarks like “He runs like a girl” or “She throws like a girl”, and the statements like “Don’t be such a girl”. The other day I was at the school with my kids when my daughter’s friend told me my son had called him a girl. He was clearly upset and my son definitely didn’t mean it as a compliment. Rather than consequence my son and give in to the idea that being a girl is a bad thing, I told him that there was nothing wrong with that because girls are awesome. His mother quickly agreed and the boys moved on from their dispute.

I’m a grown woman and on an intellectual level I know that those statements mean nothing. I know that I am every bit as capable as a man and I know my daughter has just as much potential as her brothers. On an emotional level, those statements hurt me. They hurt because of what they imply but also because so they are so widely accepted. It hurts me because I don’t want my daughter to grow up being treated as if she is not as fast, as strong or as important as her male counterparts. It is time for that to stop. Watch and share this video if you agree.

Always is inviting girls and women everywhere to join the movement and share what they proudly do #LikeAGirl. Tweet, take a picture, shoot a video or send a message using the hashtag #LikeAGirl to take a stand and show young girls everywhere that doing things “like a girl” should never be used as an insult – that it means being strong, talented and downright amazing.

Here are some pictures of my daughter doing things “like a girl”.

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She climbed all the way to the top, like a girl.
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She shot that arrow, like a girl.
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And she hit her target too, just like a girl.

I can’t wait to see what photos all of you share. I know that we can make a difference!

Comments

20 responses to “He Called Me a Girl! #PGMom #LikeAGirl”

  1. amy lovell Avatar
    amy lovell

    SUch a great message to send out!

    1. Sheri Avatar
      Sheri

      I agree! The video makes me emotional though.

  2. Judy Cowan Avatar
    Judy Cowan

    Great post and definitely a message that needs to be spread – Girls are great and can do anything they want!

  3. Darlene W Avatar
    Darlene W

    I was a girl and then a young lady and now I a woman and I am strong!

  4. Shelley N Avatar
    Shelley N

    I lived in a neighbourhood where I was one of the youngest and one of the few girls -talk about a double whammy! I can so totally relate to this. Road hockey was huge on our street but the youngest rarely were allowed to play with the gang and a girl was like poison. I practiced with my Dad and kept asking to join. Eventually I knew I would get a chance and I wanted to be ready. One day they were really short of people so I got to play and I scored a goal. Of course they called my goal a “fluke” but in reality they knew it wasn’t. After that I got to play as much as the younger boys did and I was given a grudging respect.

  5. Jeannie Avatar
    Jeannie

    I really enjoyed reading this post of yours. I don’t understand why doing things like a ‘girl’ or ‘boy’ has to have negative connotations. I am a girl and I do things like a girl and I’m proud of that!

  6. Chandra Christine O'Connor Avatar
    Chandra Christine O’Connor

    finally a feminine hygiene video that is freaking amazing. That was awesome!

  7. MrDisco Avatar
    MrDisco

    that’s a good campaign

  8. Suzie M Avatar
    Suzie M

    What a great message

  9. Anne Taylor Avatar
    Anne Taylor

    Its a shame this is so engrained in our society isn’t it? Your daughter is my hero btw!

    1. Sheri Avatar
      Sheri

      I passed that along to her 🙂

  10. DARLENE W Avatar
    DARLENE W

    My granddaughters have been raised to be “just a girl” and they excel at everything they do

  11. MrDisco Avatar
    MrDisco

    Archery looks like good fun

  12. heidi c. Avatar
    heidi c.

    This is a message that I have been giving to my girls since they were very little. I am glad that Stayfree is spreading and encouraging this.

  13. Stephanie LaPlante Avatar
    Stephanie LaPlante

    Girl Power! Looks like a fun day of activities.

  14. Christy Martin Avatar
    Christy Martin

    Powerful video and unfortunately it all makes sense now. I never realized how hurtful “like a girl” could be, I just ignored it. I grew up with 3 brothers and held my own. However, whenever they wanted to be mean – the phrase was common. I made sure I was the son my father never had (sports wise) and I was. He was my soccer coach for 5 years, because I played like a girl! It is sad to say though, most girls don’t grow up with 3 brothers and would find these words most hurtful, once they figure out what they mean. I also agree with the young woman in the video, age 11-13 confidence drops and for a spell you wonder how like a girl you are supposed to be etc.

  15. Janie N @copperjane Avatar
    Janie N @copperjane

    It is a important message #LikeAGirl I am the oldest of a farmers daughter, being a girl never even came into the picture anytime. I still did everything. Hunting with my dad to fixing the truck. Yet, I did take Ballet lessons and ended up being a dance instructor. Heaven forbid my hubby implying I can’t do something like drywall the garage etc. 🙂

  16. loriag Avatar
    loriag

    Powerful video, thanks for sharing the message.

  17. Ronald G Avatar
    Ronald G

    The next president will be a woman…empowering all girls

  18. KATHY DOWNEY Avatar
    KATHY DOWNEY

    An emotional video,but such a wonderful message to get out !

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